What was supposed to be a routine swearing-in turned into a whirlwind of suspicion, all thanks to a single kiss in the White House.
During the November 10, 2025, ceremony appointing Sergio Gor as U.S. ambassador to India, the usually buttoned-up formalities of the Oval Office took a shocking personal turn during an exchange between President Donald Trump and Erika Kirk. And the internet didn’t hold back.

A netizen’s comment about Donald Trump and Erika Kirk’s exchange at the Oval Office on November 10, 2025 | Source: Instagram/foxnews
The Confusing Moment
As Donald sat confidently behind the famed Resolute Desk, he suddenly started looking around and then asked, “Where’s Erika?”
Erika, now the CEO of Turning Point USA and the widow of the late conservative firebrand Charlie Kirk, emerged from the left to greet the president.

US President Donald Trump and Erika Kirk greet each other during the swearing-in ceremony of US Ambassador to India Sergio Gor in the Oval Office of the White House on November 10, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
What happened next had netizens confused: she leaned in, offering her cheek. Donald kissed her gently while she placed one hand on his shoulder and clasped his other hand. The two then held hands for several long seconds before parting.

US President Donald Trump and Erika Kirk share a kiss during the swearing-in ceremony in the Oval Office of the White House on November 10, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
Social Media Explodes Over Intimate Exchange
The reaction was instantaneous and ferocious.
One commenter on social media cried out, “Why is he kissing her?” while another spiraled into disbelief, questioning, “Why is she there? Why is she there? Why is she there right now? What’s her purpose there right now? What is going on?”
Another shocked viewer wrote, “Why is she at the Oval office? This is becoming a bad Netflix movie with a healthy side of cult. Also, that’s weird and creepy.”
And perhaps the most scathing comment of all said, “Bizarre. I truly don’t understand why she is there? Charlie would have wanted her home with their children. Like a proper Christian wife and mother.”

US President Donald Trump and Erika Kirk hold hands during the swearing-in ceremony of US Ambassador to India Sergio Gor in the Oval Office of the White House on November 10, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
While some leaned into confusion or condemnation, others speculated it was all part of a carefully staged scene.
“He don’t [sic] ask where’s Melania like that lol, but anyway it’s just a publicity stunt,” one person declared on Facebook. “That’s the part they put on camera, and show to the public, the part that’s not even related.”
Others simply wondered, “Not that she can’t be there but why is she there?” and “What is she doing there? Is she now working for him?”
The Reason She Was There
Despite the swirl of drama, the reason for Erika’s presence was deeply personal. She had been invited by the president himself. Gor was a close friend of her late husband and the co-founder of Winning Team Publishing, which has released several of Charlie’s books.

Erika Kirk and Sergio Gor hug during his swearing-in ceremony as US Ambassador to India in the Oval Office of the White House on November 10, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
When asked to speak, Erika Kirk delivered a short but emotional message to Gor, expressing how much her late husband cared for him and how Charlie would’ve called him immediately after the news of his new position came.
Gor was officially assigned as the ambassador to India this past October, and Erika’s presence was a bittersweet homage to shared history and enduring friendship.
She continued, “The way that I was able to witness the two of you work together for years and to champion and support the president was absolutely humbling to witness, and I am so proud of you and Charlie is going to be with you every single day in spirit.”
Erika added that Gor would be in her prayers as more opportunities open up for him in the future. Surprisingly, this isn’t the first time that an intimate moment of hers has attracted online attention.
As previously reported, on October 29, Erika attended an event at the University of Mississippi to mark her appointment as CEO of Turning Point USA, succeeding Charlie. Joining her onstage was Vice President JD Vance, with whom she shared a brief hug and a few words — later analyzed by a human behavior expert.

Netizen comment about U.S. Vice President JD Vance and his wife Usha Vance, posted on November 2, 2025. | Source: Instagram/vp
An Emotional Ceremony Erupts Into Scandal
Before the vice president even stepped onto the stage, Erika had already set a deeply emotional tone. With tears welling in her eyes, the widow reflected on the decision to carry on Charlie’s legacy.
“When our team asked my dear friend, Vice President JD Vance, to speak today, I really prayed on it, because obviously it’s a very emotional, emotional day,” she admitted to the crowd.

Erika Kirk speaking on stage at the University of Mississippi during a Turning Point USA event in Oxford, Mississippi on October 29, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Erika went on to describe a vivid moment of spiritual clarity that led her to say yes, “I could just hear Charlie in my heart. I could just hear him say, ‘Go reclaim that territory, babe. Go. The battle’s already won. God’s love conquers.’”
Her tribute reached an even more personal note when she introduced the event’s guest of honor. “No one will ever replace my husband, but I do see some similarities of [sic] my husband in JD — in Vice President JD Vance,” Erika shared. “I do — and that’s why I am so blessed to be able to introduce him tonight.”

Erika Kirk speaking on stage at the University of Mississippi. | Source: Getty Images
As JD walked onstage, the moment that followed would ignite a viral storm. Erika moved toward him and wrapped him in a prolonged embrace. While cameras captured what many assumed was a gesture of comfort between two longtime allies, the internet would soon dissect it from every angle.
Some viewers pointed to Erika’s hand lightly threading through the vice president’s hair; others scrutinized the placement of JD’s hands on her hips. Overall, the interaction, though brief, fueled a digital wildfire of speculation over the nature of their bond.

Erika Kirk and U.S. Vice President JD Vance exchanging a hug and some words during the Turning Point USA event, posted on November 3, 2025. | Source: YouTube/11Alive
‘It’s Not Gonna Bring Him Back’: Lip Reader Steps In
Still, a professional lip reader has now come forward to help clarify the exchange. Nicola Hickling reviewed the footage and concluded that what occurred between the two was rooted in emotion and grief, not controversy.

JD Vance speaking as Erika Kirk embraces him. | Source: Getty Images
According to Nicola, Erika had whispered to her assistant just before taking the stage, “I can’t do this, I don’t want to do it. Give me a second.”
By the time she introduced JD, she had composed herself, but the emotional weight was palpable. During the embrace, Nicola believes JD quietly told her, “I’m proud of you.” To which Erika reportedly replied, “It’s not gonna bring him back.”

Erika Kirk looking up at JD Vance as the vice president looks on. | Source: Getty Images
Nicola emphasized that the moment was one of human connection during unimaginable loss — not one meant to be scandalized. Though Erika has not addressed the hug directly, she did speak publicly following the viral moment.
In a conversation with Fox News, she turned her focus to the upcoming trial of her husband’s suspected killer, 22-year-old Tyler Robinson. Pushing back against the attempted curtail of media in the courtroom, she said firmly, “There have been cameras all over me, analysing my every move, analysing my every smile, my every tear. We deserve to have cameras in there.”

Erika Kirk and JD Vance at the Turning Point USA event. | Source: YouTube/11Alive
‘Truly Wicked’: Online Viewers React with Disapproval
Following Erika’s exchange with JD, who is married to Usha Vance, the internet quickly became a battleground of differing opinions. Across social platforms, viewers voiced their discomfort, particularly over Erika’s hand placement during the hug.
“I have never hugged any of my mates [sic] partners like this. This is truly wicked,” remarked one netizen. Echoing a similar sentiment, another commented, “Nahhh…i dont hug any of my BFFs husband like that.. it was too intimate for me… [sic].”
A separate viewer weighed in critically, saying, “I have to admit that Erika’s hand on JD’s head was too much. It was a very intimate move that is meant for people in love. I hope someone told her not to do that anymore.”
Viral Hug Between JD Vance and Erika Kirk Includes a Private Exchange of Words
Not only has a lip reader decoded the words exchanged between the two, but netizens have a lot to say about the moment, with some even predicting that the vice president’s divorce may be imminent.
On October 29, 2025, Erika Kirk attended an event at the University of Mississippi to mark her appointment as CEO of the conservative movement Turning Point USA, succeeding her late husband, Charlie Kirk. Joining her onstage was U.S. Vice President JD Vance, with whom she shared a brief hug and a few words — later analyzed by a human behavior expert.

Netizen comment about U.S. Vice President JD Vance and his wife Usha Vance, posted on November 2, 2025. | Source: Instagram/vp
An Emotional Ceremony Erupts Into Scandal
Before the vice president even stepped onto the stage, Erika had already set a deeply emotional tone. With tears welling in her eyes, the widow reflected on the decision to carry on Charlie’s legacy.
“When our team asked my dear friend, Vice President JD Vance, to speak today, I really prayed on it, because obviously it’s a very emotional, emotional day,” she admitted to the crowd.

Erika Kirk speaking on stage at the University of Mississippi during a Turning Point USA event in Oxford, Mississippi on October 29, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Erika went on to describe a vivid moment of spiritual clarity that led her to say yes, “I could just hear Charlie in my heart. I could just hear him say, ‘Go reclaim that territory, babe. Go. The battle’s already won. God’s love conquers.’”
Her tribute reached an even more personal note when she introduced the event’s guest of honor. “No one will ever replace my husband, but I do see some similarities of [sic] my husband in JD — in Vice President JD Vance,” Erika shared. “I do — and that’s why I am so blessed to be able to introduce him tonight.”

Erika Kirk speaking on stage at the University of Mississippi. | Source: Getty Images
As JD walked onstage, the moment that followed would ignite a viral storm. Erika moved toward him and wrapped him in a prolonged embrace. While cameras captured what many assumed was a gesture of comfort between two longtime allies, the internet would soon dissect it from every angle.
Some viewers pointed to Erika’s hand lightly threading through the vice president’s hair; others scrutinized the placement of JD’s hands on her hips. Overall, the interaction, though brief, fueled a digital wildfire of speculation over the nature of their bond.

Erika Kirk and U.S. Vice President JD Vance exchanging a hug and some words during the Turning Point USA event, posted on November 3, 2025. | Source: YouTube/11Alive
‘It’s Not Gonna Bring Him Back’: Lip Reader Steps In
Still, a professional lip reader has now come forward to help clarify the exchange. Nicola Hickling reviewed the footage and concluded that what occurred between the two was rooted in emotion and grief, not controversy.
According to Nicola, Erika had whispered to her assistant just before taking the stage, “I can’t do this, I don’t want to do it. Give me a second.” By the time she introduced JD, she had composed herself, but the emotional weight was palpable. During the embrace, Nicola believes JD quietly told her, “I’m proud of you.” To which Erika reportedly replied, “It’s not gonna bring him back.”

JD Vance speaking as Erika Kirk embraces him. | Source: Getty Images
Nicola emphasized that the moment was one of human connection during unimaginable loss — not one meant to be scandalized. Though Erika has not addressed the hug directly, she did speak publicly following the viral moment.
In a conversation with Fox News, she turned her focus to the upcoming trial of her husband’s suspected killer, 22-year-old Tyler Robinson. Pushing back against the attempted curtail of media in the courtroom, she said firmly, “There have been cameras all over me, analysing my every move, analysing my every smile, my every tear. We deserve to have cameras in there.”

Erika Kirk looking up at JD Vance as the vice president looks on. | Source: Getty Images
‘Truly Wicked’: Online Viewers React with Disapproval
Following Erika’s exchange with JD, who is married to Usha Vance, the internet quickly became a battleground of differing opinions. Across social platforms, viewers voiced their discomfort, particularly over Erika’s hand placement during the hug.
“I have never hugged any of my mates [sic] partners like this. This is truly wicked,” remarked one netizen. Echoing a similar sentiment, another commented, “Nahhh…i dont hug any of my BFFs husband like that.. it was too intimate for me… [sic].”

Erika Kirk and JD Vance at the Turning Point USA event. | Source: YouTube/11Alive
A separate viewer weighed in critically, saying, “I have to admit that Erika’s hand on JD’s head was too much. It was a very intimate move that is meant for people in love. I hope someone told her not to do that anymore.”
‘That Divorce Is Coming’: Rumors Swirl About JD and Usha Vance
Speculation over the future of JD and Usha’s marriage also began to bubble up online. “They’re still married?” asked one person bluntly. Others went even further. “That divorce is coming soon sis [sic],” predicted one commenter. “i see a divorce and marriage to erica in a couple years [sic],” opined someone else.
As the footage continued to circulate, it became clear that public interest had shifted from Erika’s heartfelt tribute to what some perceived as signals of a deeper, possibly evolving relationship between her and JD Vance.
Charlie Kirk’s Wife, Erika, Publicly Speaks Out for the First Time Since Her Husband’s Death
For the first time since the tragic death of her husband, Erika Kirk stepped forward to speak publicly — and emotionally — about his life, his legacy, and what comes next.
Erika Kirk, the widow of conservative activist Charlie Kirk, has made her first public statement since her husband’s death. Speaking at a press briefing, Erika expressed gratitude to first responders, investigators, and public officials who supported her after Wednesday’s fatal shooting.

Charlie Kirk speaks at the opening of the Turning Point Action conference on July 15, 2023, in West Palm Beach, Florida | Source: Getty Images
She specifically thanked President Donald Trump and Vice President JD Vance for their outreach during the difficult time. “Mr. President, my husband loved you, and he knew that you loved him, too,” Erika said, fighting back tears. “He did. Your friendship was amazing. You supported him so well, as did he for you.”
Erika shared that Charlie often spoke about how he wanted to be remembered — not just as a political figure, but as a man of faith and courage. She pledged to carry on his work through Turning Point USA, the organization he founded and led.
“Charlie, I promise I will never let your legacy die, baby,” she said. “I promise I’ll make Turning Point USA the biggest thing that this nation has ever seen.” In her closing remarks, Erika spoke about Charlie’s deep commitment to their family, saying he had loved their children and her, with all his heart, and that she had always known it.
Erika also shared a personal moment with their three-year-old daughter, Gigi, who has begun to ask questions about her father’s absence.
“When I got home last night, Gigi, our daughter, just ran into my arms,” Erika said. “And she goes, ‘Where’s daddy?’ I said, ‘Baby, daddy loves you so much. Don’t you worry. He’s on a work trip with Jesus so he can afford your blueberry budget.’”
We previously reported, on September 12, that Erika was seen in public for the first time since her husband was gunned down in a shocking act of violence at a Utah Valley University event on September 10. Her sighting drew an outpouring of empathy from the public.

A netizen’s reaction to seeing Erika Kirk for the first time since Charlie Kirk’s death, from a post dated September 12, 2025 | Source: X/DonnaShaw10
A Nation Watches as Grieving Widow Emerges
Charlie, the bold and controversial founder of Turning Point USA, had been seated among supporters when a bullet tore into the side of his neck, leaving the audience stunned and horrified. Despite emergency efforts, he later succumbed to his injuries — a tragic end to a life that had stirred national debates.

Erika Lane Frantzve and Charlie Kirk on stage during the Turning Point USA Inaugural-Eve Ball at the Salamander Hotel on January 19, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
Just days after his brutal killing, Erika emerged for the first time, her presence both heart-wrenching and brave as the Kirk family prepared to say their final goodbyes.
US Vice President JD Vance made a solemn journey to Utah to honor his fallen friend, Charlie. In a deeply moving gesture of loyalty, he then accompanied Charlie’s casket to Arizona aboard Air Force Two, where the late activist will be laid to rest.
In a powerful video clip that has since gone viral, the Vice President’s wife, Second Lady Usha Vance, was seen reaching out to hold Erika’s hand as they descended the aircraft’s stairs. Erika appeared overcome, her pain etched into her body language.
Dressed in black and hidden behind dark sunglasses, both Erika and Usha walked side by side, solemn and united, while JD followed silently behind.

JD Vance (R), Usha Vance (C), and Erika Kirk deplane Air Force Two while escorting the body of Charlie Kirk on September 11, 2025, in Phoenix, Arizona | Source: Getty Images
‘She’s So Broken’: Viewers React to Erika’s Pain
The raw, emotional scene triggered a cascade of empathy and heartbreak from viewers across the nation. One person could hardly bear the sight, writing, “So heartbreaking 💔 how is she even walking? Because God is holding her up.” Another netizen offered a prayerful note of support, “God bless her. Usha is holding her from absolutely collapsing.”

JD Vance (R), Usha Vance (C), and Erika Kirk deplane Air Force Two while escorting the body of Charlie Kirk on September 11, 2025, in Phoenix, Arizona | Source: Getty Images
A fan tenderly highlighted the bond between the two women, “Usha holding Erika’s hand 🥺♥️.” Someone else reflected on the gesture, “I think that she reached out for Usha’s hand says [sic] a lot about both of them.” An individual admired Usha’s kindness, saying, “Usha is a very sweet person and I’m glad she is there with JD for Erika.”

JD Vance and Usha Vance arrive to pay their respects to victims of the Annunciation Catholic Church shooting on September 3, 2025, in Minneapolis, Minnesota | Source: Getty Images
Other people saw Erika’s visible pain, with one remarking, “Her body language says everything. Poor girl. She’s so broken. She looks so lost and exhausted.” A similar thought was echoed, “Her body language shows her pain.” And finally, a fan summed up the collective grief with, “Omg!! She’s so broken! My heart hurts.”
A Bond Forged in Politics, Honored in Grief
The connection between JD and Charlie ran deep. Charlie had been one of his most vocal champions. He strongly advocated for him to be US President Donald Trump’s running mate in the 2024 elections.

Charlie Kirk introduces JD Vance on stage during the Turning Point USA Inaugural-Eve Ball at the Salamander Hotel on January 19, 2025, in Washington, DC | Source: Getty Images
Even in the aftermath of tragedy, the Vice President has carried himself with deep respect for Charlie, honoring their bond in death as in life. He helped to bear Charlie’s casket before it was taken to the plane for the journey to Arizona.
Trump Speaks Out as Investigation Progresses
Meanwhile, Trump has also spoken out about the tragedy. While taking questions on the White House lawn on September 12, he said he had spoken with Erika, describing her as “absolutely devastated” by her husband’s loss.

Charlie Kirk speaks on stage with President Donald Trump at America Fest in Phoenix, Arizona, on December 22, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Trump added that he had been informed authorities were making “big progress” in the search for the shooter. He also noted that he has an indication of the shooter’s motive but would share those details with the public at a later time.
As for now, the Salt Lake City Field Office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) is still hunting the suspect behind the death of Charlie. With the killer still at large, investigators have released photos and are urgently appealing for more videos, images, or information from the public — offering a reward for crucial tips.

Charlie Kirk arrives at Utah Valley University in Orem, on September 10, 2025 | Source: Getty Images
On September 11, 2025, the FBI Salt Lake City released surveillance photos on X showing a man wearing a dark cap, sunglasses, and a black long-sleeve shirt with an American flag graphic.
He was captured from different angles, walking up a stairwell, moving down a hallway, standing near railings, and carrying a black backpack.
According to the agency’s website, they are offering up to a $100,000 reward for information that leads to the arrest and identification of the person/s involved in the fatal shooting. Tips can be submitted by calling 1-800-CALL-FBI or through the FBI’s online portal.
Alongside their appeal to the public, investigators also revealed significant progress in the case. In a press statement, FBI Salt Lake City Field Office Special Agent in Charge Robert Bohls said a high-powered rifle was recovered in a wooded area where the suspect reportedly fled after the shooting.
“This morning, I can tell you that we have recovered what we believe is the weapon used in yesterday’s shooting,” Bohls said. The firearm is now being examined at the FBI Laboratory.
Agents also recovered additional physical evidence from the same location, including a footwear impression, palm print, and forearm imprints. The public has submitted more than 130 tips, which are being reviewed alongside the forensic evidence.
“All leads and tips are being fully investigated,” Bohls added. “The FBI has brought every resource to bear, and we will continue to do so throughout the course of this investigation.”

FBI agents and police officers investigate the scene at Utah Valley University on September 11, 2025, the day after Charlie Kirk was shot and killed | Source: Getty Images
Though the suspect’s motive remains unclear, investigators say the case carries broader implications. Bohls emphasized that the FBI’s mission is not only to protect the American people but also to uphold the U.S. Constitution.
“Any attack on the First Amendment is an attack on the very foundation of our democracy,” Bohls said. “That is why we will relentlessly pursue this case until the shooter is in custody.”

Emergency crews respond outside Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025, following the fatal shooting of Charlie Kirk | Source: Getty Images
As previously reported, Charlie was gunned down in front of a live audience, in a moment so sudden, so brutal, that it left the crowd screaming. Just moments earlier, he was fielding questions about mass shootings in the U.S., unaware that his final words would be etched into history.

Flowers and tribute photos honoring Charlie Kirk are placed outside the U.S. Embassy in Pretoria, South Africa, on September 11, 2025, following news of his death | Source: Getty Images
Tense Exchange Unfolds Moments Before Chaos Erupts
The shocking incident, caught on video, shows the conservative commentator locked in a tense exchange with a member of the audience who raised a controversial question. He asked Charlie how many transgender Americans were disproportionately responsible for mass shootings.

Charlie Kirk appears at Utah Valley University on September 10, 2025 in Orem | Source: Getty Images
Calm and composed, Charlie responded bluntly, “Too many.” The same audience member pressed further, claiming the number of transgender mass shooters was just five.
He went on to ask another question that would become chillingly prophetic, “Do you know how many mass shooters there have been in America over the last 10 years?”

Charlie Kirk on September 10, 2025 in Orem, Utah | Source: Getty Images
Without missing a beat, Charlie shot back with what would become his final words, “Counting or not counting gang violence?” Seconds later, a sharp pop pierced the air, and all hell broke loose.
The crowd screamed in terror as Charlie Kirk recoiled violently in his seat, struck by a bullet in front of the stunned audience. Now, it remains a wait-and-see moment as authorities hope someone will come forward with information to help them capture the shooter.
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Erika Kirk Surprises Crowd with Hand Gesture Toward Charlie Kirk’s Photo After Hug from Trump
The grieving widow’s widely-discussed hand gesture comes after she spoke publicly for the first time following her husband’s death.
In a moment that was equal parts emotional and enigmatic, the bereaved wife of Charlie Kirk stepped onstage beside U.S. President Donald Trump — and what she did there has sent social media into a spiral of confusion and debate.
On September 21, 2025, during Charlie’s solemn memorial service in Glendale, Arizona, Erika Kirk held up a sign with her hand, positioned toward a photo of her late husband. Her hand gesture — a deeply personal and symbol-laden sign — left viewers asking: What did it mean?

Netizen comment about Erika Kirk, posted on September 22, 2025. | Source: Instagram/keepfaithmedia
A Poignant Embrace… and Then a Gesture Layered with Meaning
Video footage of the pair shows Erika walking onstage after Donald calls her up. After making her way onto the platform and embracing the president, who gently kisses her head, the two move closer to the podium, where they stand in solidarity, their arms placed across each other’s backs.

U.S. President Donald Trump and Erika Kirk sharing a moment onstage at Charlie Kirk’s memorial service in Arizona, posted on September 22, 2025. | Source: YouTube/NBC News
Donald then points to something above them, drawing Erika’s gaze toward a large poster displaying a photo of her late husband. She smiles through tears and slowly lifts one hand skyward.
With her thumb, index, and pinky fingers extended, the grieving widow holds the gesture steady, her eyes lock on the image above as if reaching across realms right before she closes them in anguish.

Erika Kirk gesturing the hand signal as Donald Trump looks on. | Source: YouTube/NBC News
The stadium crowd roars with cheers as the poignant moment unfolds. Though understated, the gesture marked a powerful tribute — a quiet, deeply personal signal from Erika to Charlie that did not go unnoticed online.

Donald Trump and Erika Kirk at the somber event. | Source: YouTube/NBC News
‘Why Is She Doing This?’: Social Media Erupts in Confusion
In the hours following the service, clips of Erika’s hand gesture quickly circulated across social media, prompting a wave of probing questions.
Many netizens seemed perplexed by what they had witnessed. “This is so awkward.. [sic]” remarked one viewer, while another questioned, “Why she raised her hand like this 🤟. [sic].”

Donald Trump and Erika Kirk during the memorial service for Charlie Kirk in Glendale, Arizona on September 21, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Echoing similar sentiments, a third person wrote, “I don’t understand … what is happening?” and someone else asked, “Why is she doing this 🤟🏽 simbologist [sic]??”
The ambiguity of the moment continued to ignite even more comments. “The hand gesture,” observed one person plainly, while another wondered, “Wait why is she holding the devil symbol. [sic].” Meanwhile, one commenter attempted to provide clarity on the meaning behind the gesture.
Not a Mystery, but a Message of Love, and a Widow’s Wordless Goodbye
Though some misinterpreted the moment as cryptic or even controversial, the hand sign Erika raised is a well-established gesture in American Sign Language (ASL). Known as the sign for “I love you,” it is formed by extending the thumb, index finger, and pinky while keeping the middle and ring fingers folded down.

Donald Trump and Erika Kirk standing in front of a Turning Point USA backdrop. | Source: Getty Images
The symbol is a composite of the ASL letters I, L, and Y — each one representing a part of the phrase. Widely used in Deaf culture and beyond, the gesture has long conveyed affection, connection, and a sense of solidarity.
In the context of the memorial, it appeared to serve as a silent yet deeply personal message from Erika Kirk to her late husband — one of love that transcended words.

Erika Kirk speaking during the memorial service held for her late husband. | Source: Getty Images
The subtle yet meaningful display carried weight not only in its symbolic language but also in its timing. Erika’s heartfelt gesture came on the heels of another deeply personal milestone — her decision to speak out publicly for the first time since losing her husband.
Speaking at a press briefing, Erika expressed gratitude to first responders, investigators, and public officials who supported her after the fatal shooting on Wednesday, September 10.

Charlie Kirk speaks at the opening of the Turning Point Action conference in West Palm Beach, Florida on July 15, 2023. | Source: Getty Images
She specifically thanked the president and Vice President JD Vance for their outreach during the difficult time. “Mr. President, my husband loved you, and he knew that you loved him, too,” Erika said, fighting back tears. “He did. Your friendship was amazing. You supported him so well, as did he for you.”
Erika shared that Charlie often spoke about how he wanted to be remembered — not just as a political figure, but as a man of faith and courage. She pledged to carry on his work through Turning Point USA, the organization he founded and led.
“Charlie, I promise I will never let your legacy die, baby,” she said. “I promise I’ll make Turning Point USA the biggest thing that this nation has ever seen.” In her closing remarks, Erika spoke about Charlie’s deep commitment to their family, saying he had loved their children and her, with all his heart, and that she had always known it.
Erika also shared a personal moment with their three-year-old daughter, Gigi, who has begun to ask questions about her father’s absence.
“When I got home last night, Gigi, our daughter, just ran into my arms,” Erika said. “And she goes, ‘Where’s daddy?’ I said, ‘Baby, daddy loves you so much. Don’t you worry. He’s on a work trip with Jesus so he can afford your blueberry budget.’”
We previously reported, on September 12, that Erika was seen in public for the first time since her husband was gunned down in a shocking act of violence at a Utah Valley University event. Her sighting drew an outpouring of empathy from the public.

A netizen’s reaction to seeing Erika Kirk for the first time since Charlie Kirk’s death, posted on September 12, 2025. | Source: X/DonnaShaw10
A Nation Watches as Grieving Widow Emerges
Charlie had been seated among supporters when a bullet tore into the side of his neck, leaving the audience stunned and horrified. Despite emergency efforts, he later succumbed to his injuries — a tragic end to a life that had stirred national debates.

Erika and Charlie Kirk on stage during the Turning Point USA Inaugural-Eve Ball at the Salamander Hotel in Washington, D.C., on January 19, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Just days after his brutal killing, Erika emerged for the first time, her presence both heart-wrenching and brave as the Kirk family prepared to say their final goodbyes.
JD made a solemn journey to Utah to honor his fallen friend. In a deeply moving gesture of loyalty, he then accompanied Charlie’s casket aboard Air Force Two to Arizona, where the late activist was set to be laid to rest.
In a powerful video clip that has since gone viral, the vice president’s wife, U.S. Second Lady Usha Vance, was seen reaching out to hold Erika’s hand as they descended the aircraft’s stairs. Erika appeared overcome, her pain etched into her body language.
Dressed in black and hidden behind dark sunglasses, both Erika and Usha walked side by side, solemn and united, while JD followed silently behind.

JD Vance (R), Usha Vance (C), and Erika Kirk deplane Air Force Two while escorting the body of Charlie Kirk in Phoenix, Arizona on September 11, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
‘She’s So Broken’: Viewers React to Erika Kirk’s Pain
The raw, emotional scene triggered a cascade of empathy and heartbreak from viewers across the nation. One person could hardly bear the sight, writing, “So heartbreaking 💔 how is she even walking? Because God is holding her up.” Another netizen offered a prayerful note of support, “God bless her. Usha is holding her from absolutely collapsing.”

JD Vance (R), Usha Vance (C), and Erika Kirk disembark from Air Force Two. | Source: Getty Images
A fan tenderly highlighted the bond between the two women, “Usha holding Erika’s hand 🥺♥️.” Someone else reflected, “I think that she reached out for Usha’s hand says [sic] a lot about both of them.”
An individual admired Usha’s kindness, saying, “Usha is a very sweet person and I’m glad she is there with JD for Erika.”

Usha and JD Vance arrive to pay their respects to victims of the Annunciation Catholic Church shooting in Minneapolis, Minnesota on September 3, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Other people saw Erika’s visible pain, with one remarking, “Her body language says everything. Poor girl. She’s so broken. She looks so lost and exhausted.”
Someone else echoed a similar thought, “Her body language shows her pain.” And finally, a fan summed up the collective grief with, “Omg!! She’s so broken! My heart hurts.”
A Bond Forged in Politics, and Honored in Grief
The connection between JD and Charlie ran deep. Charlie had been one of his most vocal champions. He strongly advocated for him to be Donald’s running mate in the 2024 election.

Charlie Kirk introduces JD Vance on stage during the Turning Point USA Inaugural-Eve Ball on January 19, 2025. | Source: Getty Images
Even in the aftermath of tragedy, the Vice President has carried himself with deep respect for Charlie, honoring their bond in death as in life.
Donald Trump Speaks Out as Investigation Progresses
Meanwhile, Donald has also spoken out about the tragedy. While taking questions on the White House lawn on September 12, he said he had spoken with Erika, describing her as “absolutely devastated” by the loss of her husband.

Charlie Kirk speaks on stage with Donald Trump at America Fest in Phoenix, Arizona on December 22, 2024. | Source: Getty Images
Donald added that he had been informed authorities were making “big progress” in the search for the shooter. He also noted that he had an indication of the shooter’s motive but would share those details with the public at a later time.
At that time, the Salt Lake City Field Office of the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) was still hunting the suspect behind the death of Charlie.
Investigators had released photos and were urgently appealing for more videos, images, or information from the public — offering a reward for crucial tips.



